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What was once a table is now a desk…

January 25th, 2010 | Kathryn | News | No Comments

100 days.

Today marks the 100th day of our marriage.  It’s pretty amazing to think that it has been that long.  It feels like just yesterday that my amazing wedding was happening all around me.  Now it seems that the reality of my life is starting to set in. 

Reading back that last line I realize that it sounded a little forlorn and upsetting – let me assure you loved ones, that is not the case.  I’m merely stating that marriage is not exactly marshmallows and unicorns all day everyday.  Now, I’ve seen some unicorns these last 100 days, don’t get me wrong; but don’t underestimate the troll hiding under the bridge (aren’t all these fairytale references delicious?). 

Our troll – space.  As our lives become more complicated, our apartment seems to shrink right before our eyes.  I simply have had no good place to do any real work.  I don’t have a spot to put all my school work, computer (it’s home up until 2 days ago was lying upright against the back of the couch), or teaching supplies.  This “lack of space” was beginning to take a toll on our communication skills, our patience, and our ability to move about in the apartment.  Thankfully, loved ones, my husband has magical powers.

Showering on Saturday morning I was suspicious of what my husband was doing, he was being rather quiet and wouldn’t answer my questions directly.  I rushed through my shower, got dressed for a day of…laundry (I know we lead an exciting life) and walked into my dining room to find this….

 

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I know what you are thinking – “But your dining room!!”  Sometimes, loved ones, you have to sacrifice aesthetics for sanity.  I’m not looking be on the cover of Better Homes and Gardens with this little apartment.  My new desk area makes life a little easier.  For me – a place to work, live, and play.  For David – a home for all the things that he has tripped over for so long.  A win win people!  

 

Now I don’t want you all to think that marriage wasn’t what we thought it would be blah blah whine whine.  No! The truth is marriage is EXACTLY how we thought it would be, we’re smart.  I’m just trying to be honest about what is happening in our lives, but what’s honesty without a little folly?  I mean, you want to know how life is going – this weekend it was a troll that turned into a unicorn, and that is what life is about, heck that is what marriage is about!  Turning trolls into unicorns…

And if you really think about it – isn’t that how any unicorn starts out?  As a troll?

Disney Versus Reality

January 11th, 2010 | Kathryn | Vacation | 1 Comment

Disney was amazing, our first vacation together to the most magical place on earth!  We really enjoyed everything that it had to offer!  Epcot was great, below is David with the big giant ball at Epcot!  We did pretty much every single park and tore it up until about midnight when the park closed.  We went with my family, all of them.  We had a loud, wild, exhausting, hilarious, and enjoyable time.  It was a great time!Disney 096So now, David and I are coming down from the high of our Christmas vacation and boy is it difficult trying to get back into the swing of things.  We’ve struggled with setting up some routines in the house for things such as laundry and when to scrub the shower, but this weekend was helpful in  pulling us together a little bit.  When Dave got up for work this morning I could tell that he was suffering from a little bit of the cold weather blues, as we all are around this time of the year; this makes everything 100% harder to do.

So here we are, our apartment is clean and scrubbed completely for the first time since we got back from vacation and it wasn’t gross or anything there was just a lot of laundry to do, all the Christmas decorations to put away, and all my school stuff to sort through.  The unfortunate part about that last thing is that the school stuff I put away will only be replaced by more school stuff by the end of the week. 

Yes that’s right, I am currently looking right down the barrel of student teaching.  Oh terrifying, I’m talking like….out of my skin afraid.  You would think that after working in the classroom for the past year that I would feel prepared for what is about to happen; you’re wrong.  I think that education is a lot more like medical school than people think.  I respect that some people believe that you have to be smarter than a teacher to be a doctor, I hold the firm belief that in order to be a teacher you have to be smarter than everyone else. :) haha! Anyways…what was I saying? oh! yeah ohkay…uhm. (let’s start a new paragraph, that will help me refocus…)

Education is a lot like the medical field.  You read about how to do things, how to teach and how to heal.  Until you get into the field, however you really don’t know how to DO anything.  Every patient is different and every student is different.  They way you learned how to heal one person, or how to teach a lesson, may have to change drastically from how you learned it.  Now, I’m not completely out of mind I know there are a lot of differences between the two professions.  Doctors have to know a lot about one thing (the human body) and teachers have to know a lot about everything…;).  Oh also, like $60,000 difference a year.  :)   Oh and like 4 years of school. Ohkay fine! Doctors are smarter than me, but you get the jest of what I’m saying…

I don’t even know where I was going with this…OH! Yes, I’m afraid; so for all of you out there that think I don’t understand what teaching will be like, be assured that I’m completely aware of what I’m getting myself into.  Which should assure you in itself.  It assures me, knowing what I know about the profession and doing it anyway is proof that I was meant for this.  It convinced me, so let it convince you too. 

Tomorrow starts a few methods classes for the next few weeks but Wednesdays I’m in my classroom.  :) Oh boy!

Some quick big updates from Brownsburg:

It snows.

I quit my job at the bank after 3 years, in order to make room for the time and effort that this semester requires.

David is working hard on a site for a organization called Bethany Kids (I’ll let him write a post to explain if he wants) and he is very excited about it!! (to be honest, it’s probably one of the coolest sites that I have seen!)

We are eagerly awaiting Spring!

 

That is all for now! Tomorrow starts a whole new adventure for the Brownsburg Radcliffes!!